As he approached ninety, the ABBA world shrank. He spent his days reading and watching TV, listening to audio through a pair of oversized wireless headphones over his ears with the volume turned up to the max. He still wore his hearing aids, but as the condition of his ears worsened, the devices became less effective. Simple conversations were now superhuman efforts that ended in screaming at matches and frustration.
“Do you want dinner?”
“do you feel sleepy?”
“Can I have some tea?”
Phone calls were impossible—Abba had to put his phone on speakerphone, press it directly to his ear, and tell the person on the other end to shout as loudly as he could. In the end, “talking” to ABBA on the phone meant making a video call to him and smiling and waving at him.
When I visited him in the fall of 2022, I was wearing a pair of AirPods, and he pointed to my ear with a puzzled expression on his face.
“headphones!” Screamed. “I use it to listen to music!”
And then, I wondered if I could use it for something more substantial.
In 2018, Apple made Live listen, an iOS feature that allows iPhones and iPads to transmit audio from their microphones directly to compatible hearing aids, works with regular AirPods. I never had a reason to use the feature myself, but now I’m curious. Can Live Listen help me have a conversation with my grandfather after all these years?
I took my AirPods out of my ear and put them into his body. I turned on Live Listen on my iPhone, held it close to my mouth, and spoke to it.
“Hi, can you hear me?”
Abba’s face smiled, and he nodded excitedly. “I can hear you! I can hear you!”
AirPods are not my favorite Apple product. I think it’s overpriced, and it doesn’t look great for what you pay. But it’s also true that no other wireless earbuds work seamlessly with iPhones, which is why they’re the default wireless earbuds for most people, myself included.
They are also an environmental hazard. Vice named AirPods “fossils of future capitalism”, destined for landfills once their tiny batteries, encased in hard plastic, wear out after two years. And I resent the fact that Apple got rid of headphone jacks that work so well and made people pay for something they used to get in the box for free.
But with Live Listen, the AirPods helped me reconnect with my grandfather in a way no other device could. I’m willing to step over my fears for that.